best Friends Forever (Until They’re Not)

I don’t believe in labels like ‘best friends’ because I never truly had one—or if I did, they eventually became strangers. For me, the distinctions between ‘friends’ and ‘acquaintances’ have worked well enough to navigate life. But sometimes I wonder who came up with these baffling, often ridiculous titles like ‘best friends,’ and the even more absurd ‘best friends forever.’ I can’t quite understand how ‘best friends’ change over time, and when one leaves, are you then allowed to find a new one? Who makes the rules? It’s something I’ve found amusing as I’ve grown older. Maybe the funniest part is that I never had a best friend to begin with.

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  1. Anonymous21 September 2024 at 21:52

    I can understand your feelings as I've never close friends , I was trying to make genuine connection, and tried E-Letters and email exchanges as well so that human can understand crucial value of eachother time and value , but doesn't happen like that , some may just ignore or some ghost after sometime. But i can try good friendship with you if you really wants , someone from slowly app .

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